What Does the Bible Say About Shyness?
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What Does the Bible Say About Shyness?

Do you sometimes feel shy or timid around other people? You’re not alone. Many believers struggle with shyness and introversion. But what does God’s Word say about this common personality trait? In this comprehensive blog post, we’ll explore the biblical perspective on shyness and how you can grow in boldness and confidence in Christ.


Shyness is defined as feeling uneasy or awkward in the company of others and avoiding social interaction. As an introvert, you may prefer solitary activities and feel drained after prolonged social interaction. You might also feel self-conscious and worry about what others think of you.

While shyness is often viewed negatively in Western cultures that prize extroversion and assertiveness, it’s important to note that shyness is not inherently sinful. Some biblical figures likely exhibited shy temperaments, including Moses (Exodus 4:10), Jeremiah (Jeremiah 1:6), and John the Baptist (Luke 1:80).

However, the Bible makes clear that God did not create us to live in debilitating fear of others. Extreme shyness can hinder our relationships and Christian witness. With God’s strength, we can overcome timidity and exercise bold faith.

So what does Scripture say about dealing with shyness and growing in courage? Let’s explore key biblical truths and practical tips for believers who struggle with shyness.

Key Takeaways:

  • Shyness is not inherently sinful but can become spiritually detrimental in excess.
  • God promises to be with us and strengthen us, even in intimidating social situations.
  • Developing boldness requires stepping out in faith and relying on the Spirit.
  • Our identity and worth comes from Christ, not the approval of others.
  • God calls us to focus on others’ needs rather than anxious self-focus.
What does the bible say about shyness?

Do Not Fear Others

The Bible repeatedly tells believers, “Do not fear.” This includes not being controlled by fear of other people (Isaiah 41:10; 2 Timothy 1:7). Scripture says the fear of man brings a snare, but whoever trusts in the Lord is safe (Proverbs 29:25).

Even bold leaders like Moses and Jeremiah initially felt self-conscious and inadequate for the tasks God called them to. But God reminded them that He would empower them by His Spirit (Exodus 3:11-12; Jeremiah 1:6-9).

If shyness tempts you to be paralyzed by others’ opinions, remember that God is with you and “it is the Lord of hosts whom you should regard as holy…let Him be your fear” (Isaiah 8:13).

“For God has not given us a spirit of timidity, but of power and love and discipline.” (2 Timothy 1:7)

Speak Up Boldly for Christ

Rather than shrink back timidly, followers of Jesus are called to speak the truth in love and share the gospel with boldness (Ephesians 4:15, Philippians 1:14).

Christ himself said, “Whoever acknowledges me before others, I will also acknowledge before my Father in heaven. But whoever disowns me before others, I will disown before my Father in heaven” (Matthew 10:32-33). This requires courage!

When the apostles were persecuted, they prayed for boldness to continue testifying about Christ despite opposition (Acts 4:29). God answered their prayer, filling them with the Holy Spirit to speak His word with confidence (Acts 4:31).

We too can ask God for boldness in sharing our faith. Though it may not come naturally for shy people, boldness is a fruit of the Holy Spirit that God develops in us (Acts 1:8, 2 Timothy 1:7).

Take Initiative in Relationships

Shy people often avoid taking social initiative out of fear of rejection or awkwardness. But Scripture exhorts believers to practice hospitality, welcome strangers, pursue unity, and proactively care for fellow Christians (Romans 12:13, Hebrews 13:2, Ephesians 4:3; Galatians 6:10).

Rather than obsessing over what others might think, we can focus on their needs. “Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others” (Philippians 2:3-4).

Stepping out to care for others requires courage for shy people. But bold love pleases God and builds the church.

Develop Godly Confidence

Some misunderstand meekness as weakness. But true humility flows from strength and security in God. “He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak” (Isaiah 40:29).

The more we understand our identity and worth comes from Christ alone, the less we depend on others’ approval. “There is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus” (Romans 8:1).

As we grow closer to Jesus, we can have calm confidence that we are loved, accepted, and empowered by God. “For you did not receive the spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you have received the Spirit of adoption as sons, by whom we cry, ‘Abba! Father!’” (Romans 8:15).

Meditating on God’s promises helps us trust His power and presence. “I sought the Lord, and he answered me and delivered me from all my fears” (Psalm 34:4).

Take Small Faith Steps

Growth requires moving beyond our comfort zone. Shy people avoid risks, but stepping out in small ways and relying on God builds boldness.

When God called Gideon to lead Israel’s army, Gideon was fearful and felt inadequate. Yet he obeyed God’s instructions step-by-step and developed courage (Judges 6-7). Each act of faith increased his confidence in God’s help.

Likewise, start with small faith goals. Try introducing yourself to someone new after church. Volunteer to pray aloud. Share a testimony. Offer to make a phone call you usually avoid. Lean on the Spirit to help you act against your fears.

Ask a spiritually mature friend to encourage you, pray with you, and gently push you to take faith risks. Little by little, you’ll gain boldness as you experience God’s empowerment.

Remember You’re Not Alone

If you feel alone in your shyness, remember many biblical saints overcame timidity. Moses pleaded inadequacy as a public speaker (Exodus 4:10). Gideon felt weak and insecure (Judges 6:15). Jeremiah thought he was too inexperienced to speak for God (Jeremiah 1:6). Even the boldest apostles hid in fear after Jesus’ crucifixion, until the Holy Spirit emboldened them (John 20:19).

God patiently works with the hesitant and timid. If He empowered these biblical figures, He can surely increase your confidence too. The key is meditating on His promises, obeying step-by-step, and asking others to support you in growth.

You are not alone in your shyness. Many of God’s servants have overcome the same barriers by His grace. He knows your weaknesses and will help you serve Him courageously (2 Corinthians 12:9-10).


Shyness may come naturally, but God has so much more in store for followers of Jesus. Rather than limit ourselves, we can step out to develop boldness empowered by the Holy Spirit.

It takes time and intentional growth. But God is pleased to use those who yield their fears to Him and step forward in faith. His perfect love casts out fear of others (1 John 4:18).

Meditate on biblical truth about God’s presence and power. Take small risks as the Spirit leads. Remember that our worth comes from Christ, not others’ approval. Seek out encouragement and accountability. God will grow you into greater boldness for His glory.

The righteous are as bold as lions (Proverbs 28:1). With God’s help, shy believers can develop His fearless heart – speaking, serving and shining for Christ.

Pastor duke taber
Pastor Duke Taber

Pastor Duke Taber

All articles have been written or reviewed by Pastor Duke Taber.
Pastor Duke Taber is an alumnus of Life Pacific University and Multnomah Biblical Seminary.
He has been in pastoral ministry since 1988.
Today he is the owner and managing editor of 3 successful Christian websites that support missionaries around the world.
He is currently starting a brand new church in Mesquite NV called Mesquite Worship Center, a Non-Denominational Spirit Filled Christian church in Mesquite Nevada.