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What Does the Bible Say About Separate Bank Accounts?
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What Does the Bible Say About Separate Bank Accounts?

Money can be a source of conflict in many marriages. One issue that comes up is whether spouses should have separate bank accounts or share joint accounts. What guidance does the Bible offer on this topic? As Christians, we want to have marriages that honor God and reflect biblical principles. In this post, we’ll explore what the Scriptures teach about money and marriage, and how this might apply to decisions about separate accounts.

Key Takeaways:

  • The Bible calls spouses to be unified and share resources, which could support joint accounts.
  • Separate accounts may be appropriate in certain situations like protecting finances of a previous marriage.
  • Handling money separately risks disunity, discord, and selfishness which Scripture warns against.
  • Wise financial management honors God and builds trust between spouses.
  • Biblical principles like openness, stewardship and generosity should guide money decisions.
  • Couples should thoughtfully and prayerfully decide what works best for their marriage.
What does the bible say about separate bank accounts?

Oneness and Unity Call for Shared Resources

The Bible makes it clear that in marriage, “the two shall become one flesh” (Genesis 2:24 NKJV). God intends spouses to experience profound oneness, unity and intimacy in every area of life – including finances. Scripture says, “The heart of her husband safely trusts her; So he will have no lack of gain” (Proverbs 31:11 NKJV). This implies mutual trust and confidence regarding money matters.

In the early church, believers shared resources communally to meet each others’ needs: “Now the multitude of those who believed were of one heart and one soul; neither did anyone say that any of the things he possessed was his own, but they had all things in common” (Acts 4:32 NKJV). Applying this principle in marriage, spouses can view assets as shared property given by God to steward together, instead of “his/hers.”

Most Bible teaching on marriage assumes couples share finances, like direction for husbands to provide for wives materially (1 Timothy 5:8) and warnings against stolen money harming the whole household (Proverbs 15:27). Oneness in marriage implies unity in how finances are handled – likely through joint management and ownership.

Separate Accounts Permitted in Some Cases

Although Scripture generally assumes joint financial management in marriage, separate accounts may be appropriate in certain situations. For example, a believing spouse may choose to keep finances separate from a non-believing spouse to maintain good stewardship and prevent discord (1 Corinthians 7:12-16, 2 Corinthians 6:14). Or separate accounts could help protect assets like an inheritance or property owned prior to marriage.

In some cases, separate accounts may be mutually agreed to while still maintaining transparency and oneness – for instance, to allow each spouse to have discretionary spending money. If handled wisely, this need not undermine unity. Biblically, all money and possessions belong to God anyway – we are only stewards! As long as couples avoid selfishness and agree in prayer, either joint or separate accounts could honor Christ.

Dangers of Handling Finances Separately

However, while permitted in some circumstances, managing money separately can pose dangers for marriage according to biblical principles. God calls husbands and wives to nurture intimacy and interdependence, whereas separate accounts and divided assets can foster unhealthy independence or conflict. Scripture warns, “But if you have bitter envy and self-seeking in your hearts, do not boast and lie against the truth. This wisdom does not descend from above, but is earthly, sensual, demonic. For where envy and self-seeking exist, confusion and every evil thing are there” (James 3:14-16 NKJV).

Mishandled money is a major cause of marriage strife and divorce. The Bible cautions that “a house divided against itself will not stand” (Matthew 12:25 NKJV). And Scripture further exhorts spouses to “be kindly affectionate to one another with brotherly love, in honor giving preference to one another” (Romans 12:10 NKJV). Managing finances separately risks erosion of the mutual submission, intimacy and service that marriages need to thrive long-term biblically.

Stewarding Money Wisely Builds Trust

More than the specifics of joint or separate accounts, the Bible emphasizes handling money wisely and generously as a married couple to foster trust and intimacy. Scripture urges, “Let all that you do be done with love” (1 Corinthians 16:14 ESV). Generous, unselfish use of wealth can be a blessing, whereas financial deceit or reckless mismanagement destroys relationships. “Better is a little with righteousness than vast revenues with injustice” and “Whoever trusts in his riches will fall” (Proverbs 16:8,11:28 ESV).

God cares more about the attitudes and character of our hearts than the structure of our bank accounts. Are we freely sharing with our spouse or harboring secret selfishness? Do we manage money in ways that honor God’s values or reflect worldly priorities? Biblical wisdom applied to finances builds trust between spouses like nothing else.

Biblical Financial Priorities Should Guide Decisions

The Bible offers many principles that can guide decisions about handling money in marriage – whether through separate or joint accounts. For example:

  • Openness: Couples should commit to total transparency regarding finances, regularly communicating and making major decisions together in prayer. “Let each one of you speak truthfully to his neighbor, for we are members of one another” (Ephesians 4:25 HCSB).
  • Generosity: Spouses can demonstrate unselfish agape love by generously giving to bless each other, even if accounts are separate. “It is more blessed to give than to receive” (Acts 20:35 NKJV).
  • Stewardship: Careful planning, savvy budgeting, avoiding wastefulness and wise saving honors God with money He’s given. “Precious treasure remains in a wise man’s dwelling.” (Proverbs 21:20 NKJV).
  • Contentment: Spouses should find identity and security in Christ, not money. Separate accounts can create discontentment, if misused. “Godliness with contentment is great gain” (1 Timothy 6:6 NKJV).
  • Unity: Above all, joint or separate, finances offer a platform for expressing the selfless agape love between spouses, reflecting Christ’s relationship to the Church.

Seek God’s Wisdom For Your Marriage

The Bible does not give hard rules about whether or not to have separate accounts. Scripture emphasizes principles like unity, honesty, generosity, contentment and stewardship that should guide all money management in marriage. Couples must thoughtfully and prayerfully evaluate their unique situation – strengths, weaknesses, background – to humbly seek God’s wisdom on how to apply biblical financial principles to their relationship. They should decide jointly how to steward resources in a way that honors Christ and builds their relationship.

Conclusion

Money is a major stress point for many couples. Issues like separate accounts versus joint management require wisdom. By studying Scriptures on marriage and finances, couples can discern godly strategies for handling money that promote intimacy, trust and oneness. The Bible calls spouses to be unified stewards of resources God provides, acting in love and humility, with openness and generosity. This glorifies Christ no matter the banking structures. As we earnestly seek God’s will, He promises to direct our paths – including finances.

Pastor duke taber
Pastor Duke Taber

Pastor Duke Taber

All articles have been written or reviewed by Pastor Duke Taber.
Pastor Duke Taber is an alumnus of Life Pacific University and Multnomah Biblical Seminary.
He has been in pastoral ministry since 1988.
Today he is the owner and managing editor of 3 successful Christian websites that support missionaries around the world.
He is currently starting a brand new church in Mesquite NV called Mesquite Worship Center, a Non-Denominational Spirit Filled Christian church in Mesquite Nevada.