Martha and Mary, Sisters of Lazarus
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Martha and Mary, Sisters of Lazarus


Today, our hearts and minds will journey back to the time of Jesus, where we gratefully bestow our attention upon the remarkable lives of Martha and Mary, beloved sisters of Lazarus.

As we embrace the lessons these devoted women have taught us through their experiences with our Lord and Savior, let us appreciate the beautiful depth and diversity of the roles they played in the biblical story.

Drawn from the Gospel of Luke and John, the accounts of Martha and Mary offer a profound illustration of faith, love, and service as they intertwine so tenderly with the life of Jesus.

Upon visiting their home in Bethany, Jesus offers them His gentle guidance, opening our eyes to appreciate the balance between attending to our earthly tasks and answering the call to an attentive, listening heart.

“‘Martha, Martha, you are worried and troubled about many things. But one thing is needed, and Mary has chosen that good part, which will not be taken away from her.'” (Luke 10:41-42, NKJV).

In times of joy and in moments of immense grief, as demonstrated by the miracle of their brother’s resurrection, we encounter a faithful expression of their trust in and their love for Jesus.

“Then, when Mary came where Jesus was, and saw Him, she fell down at His feet, saying to Him, ‘Lord, if You had been here, my brother would not have died.'” (John 11:32, NKJV).

As we delve into their inspiring journey, allow the Word of God to enrich your soul, cultivating a deeper understanding of the beauty of sisterhood and the divine wisdom behind each of their distinctive personalities.

So, let us embark on this exploration with an open heart, ready to embrace the divine lessons nestled within the story of , and treasure their unwavering faith and devotion to our Lord Jesus Christ.

Martha and mary, sisters of lazarus

I. The Loving Bond of Martha, Mary, and Lazarus: A Reflection of Divine Love

Just as the bond of love between Martha, Mary, and Lazarus reflects the divine love of our Lord Jesus Christ, we too are called to a deep and abiding love for our brothers and sisters in Christ.

In the Gospel of John, we find a beautiful picture of this love through the relationship of these three siblings. Jesus visited their home in Bethany multiple times, and each time, we see the love and devotion they had for Him and for one another (John 11:1-44, John 12:1-8).

Their love for each other is evident in their actions:

  • Martha’s service and hospitality (Luke 10:38-42)
  • Mary’s attentive listening at Jesus’ feet (Luke 10:39)
  • Mary’s anointing of Jesus with costly perfume (John 12:3)
  • Lazarus’s resurrection, a testimony to Jesus’ power (John 11:1-44)

In the stories of Martha, Mary, and Lazarus, we see that love is expressed in many ways, and we must remember that we are all uniquely gifted to express love in our own ways. Martha showed her love through acts of service and hospitality, ensuring that Jesus and those in her home were comfortable and cared for.

Mary, on the other hand, showed her love by sitting attentively at Jesus’ feet and listening to His teachings, and later by anointing Him with costly perfume. Lazarus was brought back to life by Jesus, and through this miraculous act, his love and devotion to Jesus were evident.

Their example of love is a reminder to us of the words in 1 John 4:7-8 that say, “Beloved, let us love one another, for love is of God; and everyone who loves is born of God and knows God. He who does not love does not know God, for God is love.”

As believers, we should strive to have bonds of love that reflect the divine love of Christ, not only within our immediate families but also with our brothers and sisters in Christ.

By following their example, our relationships can become an expression of the love, grace, and mercy that Jesus has so abundantly given to each of us.

II. Martha and Mary: The Perfect Harmony of Service and Devotion

The story of Martha and Mary, found in Luke 10:38-42, illustrates the delicate balance we are to strive for in our Christian walk: a combination of both service and devotion to our Lord. As Jesus and His disciples were traveling, they came to the home of these two sisters.

Martha, being a woman of action, got busy preparing the meal, while her sister Mary decided to sit at Jesus’ feet and simply listen to His teachings.

Martha soon became overwhelmed by all the work of serving and perhaps felt abandoned by her sister. She even approached Jesus to complain about the situation.

However, Jesus lovingly admonishes Martha by saying, “Martha, Martha, you are worried and troubled about many things. But one thing is needed, and Mary has chosen that good part, which will not be taken away from her” (Luke 10:41-42 NKJV).

  • Martha represents the part of us that seeks to serve God through works and actions.
  • Mary, on the other hand, is the one who recognizes the importance of devotion and spending time in the presence of the Lord.

Both aspects are vital and necessary, but there are times when we must choose between the two. Jesus pointed out that Mary had chosen what was most needed at the moment – to learn from Him and bask in His presence.

This does not, however, diminish the value of Martha’s service. We must ensure that we are serving with the right spirit and not allowing ourselves to become anxious and burdened with our works.

The story of Martha and Mary teaches us that we must strive to achieve a perfect harmony of service and devotion in our lives. As we seek to become more Christ-like, let us remember that both serving others and spending time in the presence of the Lord are crucial ingredients for spiritual growth.

It is in finding the delicate balance of these two aspects that we can best express our love and devotion to our Savior.

III. From Bethany to Eternity: The Enduring Lessons from the Sisters of Lazarus

The story of the sisters of Lazarus, Mary and Martha, teaches us so much about our spiritual journey and the importance of choosing what is truly needed in life.

In the Gospel of Luke 10:38-42, Jesus visits Mary and Martha at their home in the town of Bethany. Martha “received Him into her house,” while Mary “sat at Jesus’ feet and heard His word.”

Martha, on the other hand, was so concerned with getting everything ready, that she became frustrated and asked the Lord, “Do You not care that my sister has left me to serve alone?”

Jesus replied, “Martha, Martha, you are worried and troubled about many things. But one thing is needed, and Mary has chosen that good part, which will not be taken away from her.”

From this narrative, we can draw two enduring lessons:

1. The importance of having a listening heart and being attentive to the teachings of Jesus.
2. The necessity to prioritize our relationship with God over the pressures and cares of this world.

Our lives are often filled with distractions and concerns that prevent us from focusing on our relationship with Christ.

Like Mary, we must learn to sit at the feet of our Lord and listen to His life-giving words. Spending time in prayer, reading scripture, and being in fellowship with others who share our faith help us align our hearts and minds with Jesus.

The account of the raising of Lazarus, the brother of Mary and Martha, in John 11 further illustrates the power of faith in Jesus and the love He has for His people. As Lazarus laid dead in the tomb, Jesus waited two more days before arriving in Bethany.

Upon arriving, he met with Martha, who said to Him, “Lord, if You had been here, my brother would not have died.” Jesus replied, “I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in Me, though he may die, he shall live” (John 11:25). With this powerful declaration, Jesus then raised Lazarus from the dead.

This miraculous event imparts two more enduring lessons:

1. Jesus, the resurrection and the life, has power over death and sin.
2. The importance of trusting in Jesus to provide for us in our times of need – even in situations that may seem impossible.

The story of Mary, Martha, and Lazarus teaches us that it is crucial to trust Jesus with our lives, listen intently to His words, and prioritize our relationship with Him above all else. In doing so, we can be assured that He will provide and care for us as we journey from Bethany to eternity.

IV. The Transformative Presence of Jesus in the Lives of Martha, Mary, and Lazarus

In the New Testament, we see a clear example of how Jesus’ transformative presence changed the lives of Martha, Mary, and Lazarus.

In John 11, we find the story of the resurrection of Lazarus, a remarkable event that gave undeniable testimony to the life-changing power of Jesus. Martha and Mary, Lazarus’ sisters, play a crucial role in this powerful narrative.

When Jesus arrived in Bethany, Lazarus had already been in the tomb for four days. Both Martha and Mary were in deep grief over their brother’s passing. However, upon Jesus’ arrival, a dramatic change took place in the hearts of the two sisters.

Martha, the practical and responsible sister, initially held onto her faith, saying to Jesus, “Lord, if You had been here, my brother would not have died. But even now I know that whatever You ask of God, God will give You.” (John 11:21-22, NKJV).

In contrast, Mary, the contemplative sister, was completely broken and fell at Jesus’ feet in tears (John 11:32-33). Through their interactions with Jesus, both Martha and Mary experienced a renewed hope in the midst of their pain.

  • Martha’s Transformation: Martha’s faith and trust in Jesus grew tremendously in this situation. When Jesus told her that Lazarus would rise again, she expressed her belief in the resurrection at the end of time (John 11:23-24). However, Jesus took her faith to a new level by revealing Himself as “the resurrection and the life” (John 11:25, NKJV). This profound declaration transformed Martha’s understanding of Jesus and His power over life and death.
  • Mary’s Transformation: Mary’s encounter with Jesus at her brother’s tomb was an incredibly emotional experience. Overwhelmed by her pain, she didn’t initially express the same level of faith as her sister. However, Jesus demonstrated His compassionate nature by weeping with her (John 11:35). This tender moment showed Mary that Jesus truly cared for her family, and she too placed her trust in Him.

Lastly, let’s focus on the remarkable transformation in Lazarus. Once a dead man in a tomb, he was now brought back to life by the command of his dear friend, Jesus (John 11:43-44).

The resurrection of Lazarus is a vivid illustration of the transformative power of Jesus that extends beyond just the physical realm. It also highlights His power to redeem, restore and resurrect our spiritual lives.

Let these examples from the lives of Martha, Mary, and Lazarus inspire you to trust in the life-changing presence of Jesus. Allow Him to transform every area of your life as you continue to seek Him in faith.

V. Embracing the Legacy of Martha and Mary: Cultivating Heartfelt Hospitality in Our Daily Lives

The story of Martha and Mary in Luke 10:38-42 is a perfect example of how, as Christians, we need to find a balance between diligently serving others and taking the time to sit at the feet of Jesus. , shared a home in Bethany, and Jesus visited them often.

One day when Jesus was visiting, Mary chose to sit and listen to Jesus while her sister, Martha, busied herself with the tasks of serving their esteemed guest.

The NKJV translates Luke 10:40 as, “But Martha was distracted with much serving, and she approached Him and said, ‘Lord, do You not care that my sister has left me to serve alone? Therefore tell her to help me.'”

Martha represents well-intentioned but overwhelmed Christian workers, often anxious and stressed by the practical necessities of daily life.

Mary, on the other hand, personifies the ideal state of a believer, which is listening attentively to Jesus’ teachings. By cultivating a balance between the two, we can embody heartfelt hospitality in our daily lives.

  • Choose to be present. Allocate specific hours every day for prayer, Bible study, and meditation. Aim to sit in the Lord’s presence, as Mary did, and learn from His teachings. Being present allows us to cultivate deeper intimacy with Jesus and prioritize His teachings in our lives, which in turn leads to heartfelt hospitality for others.
  • Service with a heart. In serving others, take inspiration from Martha’s diligent and loving spirit, but without losing sight of the need for spiritual sustenance. When we combine Martha’s serving heart with Mary’s attentiveness to Jesus’ words, our hospitality becomes genuine, as it is rooted in the love we receive from our relationship with our Savior.
  • Balance is key. As Christians, we are called to balance our lives between time spent with the Lord in prayer and Bible study and time spent in service to others. To cultivate heartfelt hospitality in our daily lives, we must prioritize both our relationships with Jesus and our service to others. This balance will enable us to care for our physical, emotional, and spiritual wellbeing.

In today’s busy world, let us learn from Martha and Mary by striving for a balanced and well-rounded hospitality.

Encourage and uplift others, serve them fervently, but do not forget to spend time in the presence of our amazing Savior. It is in these moments of solitude and listening that we can truly draw strength, wisdom, and motivation to extend heartfelt hospitality to those we serve in our daily lives.


We hope that the stories of Martha, Mary and Lazarus can remain an inspiration for us all. Their examples of dedication and faith will hopefully continue to motivate us in our own lives, no matter what problems we face.

Let us always strive to be like these three, and be excellent examples of unwavering righteousness for the generations to come.

Pastor duke taber
Pastor Duke Taber

Pastor Duke Taber

All articles have been written or reviewed by Pastor Duke Taber.
Pastor Duke Taber is an alumnus of Life Pacific University and Multnomah Biblical Seminary.
He has been in pastoral ministry since 1988.
Today he is the owner and managing editor of 3 successful Christian websites that support missionaries around the world.
He is currently starting a brand new church in Mesquite NV called Mesquite Worship Center, a Non-Denominational Spirit Filled Christian church in Mesquite Nevada.