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What Does the Bible Say About Grieving Too Long?

Introduction

Grief is an experience that we all face at some point in our lives. Whether it’s the loss of a loved one, a job, a relationship, or a significant life change, grieving is a natural and necessary response to loss. However, as Christians, we have a unique perspective on grief and how to handle it in a healthy way.

The Bible offers comfort and guidance on how to navigate through grief, reminding us that God is with us in our pain and that he is the source of our strength and comfort.

In this blog post, we’ll explore what the Bible says about grieving too long and how to handle it in a healthy way. We’ll look at biblical examples of grieving, the dangers of grieving too long, the biblical perspective on grieving, and practical steps to take for healthy grieving.

Our aim is to help Christians navigate through the difficult terrain of grief, to find comfort in God’s Word and presence, and to emerge from their grief stronger and more resilient.

Whether you’re going through a season of grief, or you know someone who is, this post is for you. Our hope is that by exploring what the Bible says about grieving too long, we can offer practical and biblical wisdom to help you or someone you know navigate through their grief in a healthy and constructive way.

Let us turn to the Bible for guidance and comfort as we journey through our grief, knowing that we do not grieve as those who have no hope (1 Thessalonians 4:13).

mourning in the Bible

Understanding grief

Grief is an emotional response to loss, which can manifest in various ways, such as anger, denial, sadness, guilt, and acceptance. The process of grieving is unique to each individual, and there is no fixed duration or right way to grieve.

However, it’s important to acknowledge that grief is a necessary part of the healing process and that suppressing or avoiding it can lead to negative emotional and physical health effects.

Examples of grieving in the Bible

The Bible offers numerous examples of people who experienced grief and mourning. King David, a man after God’s own heart, grieved the loss of his son Absalom, who rebelled against him and was killed in a battle (2 Samuel 18:33).

David’s heart was broken, and he mourned the loss of his son, but he also recognized that he couldn’t bring him back to life.

Similarly, Job, a man of great faith, lost his children, wealth, and health, and he cried out to God in despair, asking why he had allowed such calamities to befall him.

Job’s friends offered him wrong counsel, accusing him of sinning against God, but he refused to curse God and instead affirmed his faith in God’s sovereignty (Job 1:21).

The danger of grieving too long

While grieving is a necessary process, it’s essential to be aware of the danger of grieving too long, which can lead to prolonged grief disorder (PGD).

PGD is a type of grief that doesn’t resolve with time, and the symptoms can include intense sadness, irritability, anger, loneliness, isolation, difficulty sleeping, and an inability to move forward with life. If left untreated, PGD can lead to depression, anxiety, and other negative physical and emotional health effects.

The biblical perspective on grieving

The Bible provides comfort and guidance on how to handle grief in a healthy way. Ecclesiastes 3:1-8 reminds us that there is a time and season for everything, including mourning and grieving, and that God makes everything beautiful in its time.

Psalm 34:18 assures us that the Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.

Jesus himself says, “Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted” (Matthew 5:4). The Bible doesn’t provide a fixed duration for grieving, but it encourages us to seek comfort in God and lean on his strength during difficult times.

In 2 Corinthians 1:3-4, Paul affirms that God is the Father of mercies and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our afflictions, so that we may be able to comfort others.

Practical steps for healthy grieving

While grieving can be a challenging and painful process, there are practical steps we can take to handle it in a healthy way. These include:

  1. Acknowledge your emotions and feelings – Don’t suppress or avoid your emotions, but rather accept them, express them, and allow yourself to cry, scream, or vent your feelings.
  2. Seek support from family, friends, or a support group – Grieving can be isolating, and it’s essential to surround yourself with people who can offer emotional support, practical help, and a listening ear. Consider joining a grief support group, which can provide a safe space to share your feelings with others who are going through similar experiences.
  3. Take care of yourself physically by eating well, exercising, and getting enough rest – Grief can take a toll on your physical health, so it’s important to take care of your body by eating healthy foods, staying hydrated, exercising regularly, and getting enough sleep.
  4. Seek professional help if needed, such as counseling or therapy – If you’re struggling with prolonged grief or experiencing symptoms of depression or anxiety, consider seeking professional help from a licensed therapist, counselor, or mental health provider.
  5. Lean on God and seek comfort in his word and presence – The Bible assures us that God is with us in our pain and that he is the source of our strength and comfort. Spend time in prayer, read scriptures that offer comfort and hope, and seek solace in God’s presence through worship and meditation.

Conclusion

In conclusion, while grieving is a natural and necessary process, it’s important to be aware of the danger of grieving too long and to take practical steps to handle it in a healthy way.

The Bible offers comfort and guidance on how to navigate through grief, reminding us that God is close to the brokenhearted and that he comforts us in all our afflictions.

By acknowledging our emotions, seeking support, taking care of ourselves, and leaning on God, we can journey through our grief in a healthy and constructive way.

Remember, there is no set timeline for grieving, and it’s okay to take the time needed to heal. As we walk through our grief, let us trust in God’s faithfulness and his promises to bring us peace and comfort in the midst of our pain.

Pastor Duke Taber
Pastor Duke Taber

Pastor Duke Taber

All articles have been written or reviewed by Pastor Duke Taber.
Pastor Duke Taber is an alumnus of Life Pacific University and Multnomah Biblical Seminary.
He has been in pastoral ministry since 1988.
Today he is the owner and managing editor of 3 successful Christian websites that support missionaries around the world.
He is currently starting a brand new church in Mesquite NV called Mesquite Worship Center, a Non-Denominational Spirit Filled Christian church in Mesquite Nevada.