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Understanding the Biblical Perspective on a Wife’s Submission to Her Husband

Introduction

In a world that often misunderstands and misrepresents the concept of submission, it is important for Christians to turn to the Bible to gain a proper understanding of this biblical principle. One area where this is particularly important is in marriage, where the concept of a wife’s submission to her husband can be controversial and often misunderstood. As Christians, it is essential that we understand the biblical perspective on submission in marriage and how it applies to our lives and relationships.

In this blog post, we will explore what the Bible says about submission, the biblical perspective on a wife’s submission to her husband, and common misconceptions about submission. We will examine the husband’s and wife’s roles in marriage, how submission benefits both partners and the relationship as a whole, and when submission may become problematic. We will also address common misconceptions about submission, such as the idea that submission means a wife is inferior to her husband or cannot express her opinions.

By gaining a proper understanding of the biblical perspective on submission in marriage, we can build strong and healthy relationships that honor God and bring joy to both partners. Whether you are newly married, have been married for years, or are considering marriage, this blog post will provide valuable insights and guidance on how to approach submission in marriage from a biblical perspective. Let us turn to the Word of God and seek His wisdom as we explore this important topic.

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What the Bible Says About Submission

Before we can understand the biblical perspective on a wife’s submission to her husband, we must first understand what the Bible says about submission in general. The Bible instructs us to submit to one another out of reverence for Christ (Ephesians 5:21, NKJV). This means that all Christians are called to submit to one another in humility and love.

Additionally, the Bible teaches that we are to submit to those in authority over us, such as government officials (Romans 13:1, NKJV) and church leaders (Hebrews 13:17, NKJV). This submission is not blind obedience but is done out of respect for the position of authority that these individuals hold.

The Biblical Perspective on a Wife’s Submission to Her Husband

When it comes to marriage, the Bible teaches that the husband is the head of the household (Ephesians 5:23, NKJV) and that the wife is to submit to her husband (Ephesians 5:22, NKJV). This does not mean that the wife is inferior to her husband or that she cannot express her opinions. Rather, it means that the husband has been given the responsibility to lead and guide the family, and the wife has been given the responsibility to support and respect her husband’s leadership.

The husband’s role in the marriage is to love his wife as Christ loved the church (Ephesians 5:25, NKJV). This means that the husband is to sacrificially love his wife, putting her needs before his own. The wife’s role in the marriage is to respect her husband (Ephesians 5:33, NKJV) and to submit to his leadership.

It is important to note that submission is not a one-way street. Husbands are also called to submit to their wives by loving them sacrificially and considering their needs before their own. Submission in marriage is a mutual giving of oneself to the other for the sake of the relationship and the glory of God.

When Submission Becomes a Problem

While submission is a biblical principle, there are times when it may become a problem in a marriage. For example, if the husband is abusing his authority and using it to control or manipulate his wife, this is not biblical submission. In these cases, it is important to address the issue and seek help if necessary.

It is also important to communicate openly and honestly with one another about any issues or concerns related to submission in the marriage. This can help prevent misunderstandings and ensure that both partners are on the same page.

Common Misconceptions About Submission

There are several common misconceptions about submission in marriage that can lead to misunderstandings and conflicts. Here are a few of them:

Misconception #1: Submission means a wife is inferior to her husband

This is not true. The Bible teaches that men and women are equal in value and worth (Galatians 3:28, NKJV). Submission in marriage does not diminish a wife’s worth or value.

Misconception #2: Submission means a wife cannot express her opinions

This is also not true. While the wife is called to respect her husband’s leadership, she is still allowed to express her opinions and ideas. In fact, a husband who truly loves and values his wife will seek out her input and consider her opinions when making decisions.

Misconception #3: Submission means a wife must always obey her husband

This is a common misunderstanding of submission in marriage. While the wife is called to submit to her husband’s leadership, this does not mean she must always obey him. If the husband asks the wife to do something that goes against God’s commands, the wife must obey God rather than her husband (Acts 5:29, NKJV).

Conclusion

In conclusion, the biblical perspective on a wife’s submission to her husband is one of mutual respect and love. The husband is called to sacrificially love his wife, while the wife is called to respect her husband’s leadership. Submission in marriage is not about blind obedience or inferiority, but rather about mutual giving of oneself to the other for the sake of the relationship and the glory of God.

If you are struggling with issues related to submission in your marriage, it is important to seek out biblical counseling and guidance. By seeking God’s wisdom and guidance, you can build a strong, healthy, and Christ-centered marriage that honors God and brings joy to both you and your spouse.

Pastor Duke Taber
Pastor Duke Taber

Pastor Duke Taber

All articles have been written or reviewed by Pastor Duke Taber.
Pastor Duke Taber is an alumnus of Life Pacific University and Multnomah Biblical Seminary.
He has been in pastoral ministry since 1988.
Today he is the owner and managing editor of 3 successful Christian websites that support missionaries around the world.
He is currently starting a brand new church in Mesquite NV called Mesquite Worship Center, a Non-Denominational Spirit Filled Christian church in Mesquite Nevada.